Lazy Husband Sex, Masturbation So Solutions
Relationship September 27th, 2009
“I am 50 years old, had not menstruated again this year. I was excited and wanted to have sex often. Unfortunately, the relationship with the husband are not good. We’re not having sex since the last two years. If I asked, my husband did not want the classic excuse, is tired.
Then I learned to masturbate, and can orgasm. A long time I was not dependent on her husband. I also face the temptation of a co-worker, especially if out of town again, but until now I never cheating.
I felt my husband was having an affair for so long without ever asking for sexual intercourse. I never asked because I thought it was useless, would not answer honestly. I let it go. However, in another case the husband was concerned.
Does the age of half a century, it was natural that I still have passion? Now I am quick orgasm when masturbating. Is this normal for someone my age?
I’ve read in this section, if vaginal dryness menopause she said. Then, why I did not dry when you’re excited? Do I have to have sex and not only to stay healthy to masturbate?
W. W. Jakarta
Without risk
Actually you need to know why the husband does not want to have intercourse. Through good communication will be known why. Maybe he had a sexual dysfunction that tends to avoid rather than fail.
Perhaps also it was too tired to work at that age increases, especially if a particular disease. However, could you correct suspicion, he having an affair.
Because of long standing, you do not adapt to intercourse. Instead, you masturbate. There is nothing wrong if you are still excited at the age of menopause. It does not mean losing menopause sexual desire.
If you stay healthy, let alone get the treatment, your sexual desire remains. You will also be able to have sex with both.
Perlendiran reactions you have experienced vaginal indicate that sexual response is still good. Vaginal perlendiran reaction showed that the function of blood vessels in the vaginal wall is still good.
This, among others, influenced by the hormone estrogen. Perhaps your hormones estrogen decline has not effect on blood vessels in the vagina.
Physically, in fact the same as masturbation sexual relations. The difference is there is no emotional involvement with a partner. Therefore, many people who masturbate not feel the same satisfaction as sexual intercourse. However, for other sebagain, they feel the same as an orgasm, too.
So, as long as you feel comfortable with masturbation, that’s fine because without risk. Compare if you have sex with someone else, a little more risky.
When Small Talk The Rough and Nasty
Family Care September 26th, 2009
Harsh words and dirty spilling out of little mouths. Actually,, not at home, nor friends around the house. Then, what should be done to deal with it?
Psychological Consultation in the rubric of the Child, the tabloids Nova, Astrid Wen, M. Psi. from Kancil explains, many parents who felt it was watching developments and the small environment carefully, but suddenly find your child threw the words rough and dirty in front of us. What a surprise because you feel at home there is no valid way.
The parents would be concerned if your child will have bad influence of other environmental and began looking for solutions so that no contaminated baby worse.
Children can say bad words and dirty for enjoying the reactions of people around him, as he laughed as if it was funny and entertaining, or a note with a sense of shock and curiosity of the environment.
Children say rude or nasty because it can also copy it from a friend at school, just for fun, or when he feels angry and knowing that this word could provoke resentment of others, or simply because he was learning the words new and happy with the sound of that word without knowing what it means.
There are many reasons for our children say rude or obscene. So, consider the time when and what happened after the children say rude or obscene. This is so that we can understand why the child.
By knowing that, we will be more easily overcome. When children say rude and nasty words, we can ask the child, “from whom you learned the word XXX?”, “Do you mean XXX?”, Or “Do you know what happens when other people say XXX?”
4-year-olds generally enjoy learning new words, especially in this age of language skills and absorb the information the children were growing rapidly. If the child does not know the meaning of the words were rude or nasty, we can tell it means a brief and clear, also introduced as a result when he uttered those words to someone else.
When he uttered harsh or dirty because of anger, you can teach it by telling what words may say when he was angry. You also can tell the child that the words should not be used in the family.
Instead of punishment or warning to the child for the word rude or nasty, better pay attention when he uttered the words that he was polite and happy more often words are good.
If harsh words or dirty spoken by the child from school, move to another school will not solve the problem. You can not find the school and friends for the little sterile because of school and friends is a child socialization environment, there are things that are considered good and bad is very difficult to separate.
Especially in children aged 4 years, the interest to try and explore new things is very high, including experimenting with negative things without realizing it.
Trust it to explore, learn new things, and do what he can do independently in the social environment. The boundaries and rules, affection, and attention, support and trust given by the family every day, it enables the child to grow strong and well in outdoor environments.
Latest Birkin Bag Victoria Beckham
Fashion September 23rd, 2009
For many people, money worth USD 367 million may be used to buy a house. But for the fashionista, this money is only used to complete the collection bag. No exception, of course, for Victoria Beckham.
Last Wednesday (3/2/2010), Beckham looks bring a new Hermes Birkin bag with burgundy-colored crocodile skin design. Bag worth £ 24,740 was reportedly a Christmas gift from her husband. If this bag combined with the Birkin bag collection of his other, amounting to 1 million pounds, or almost 15 billion rupiah.
Beckham is really known love with this luxury handbags. Reportedly, there are dozens of collection, consisting of various styles and colors. In fact, he had a Birkin for each dress. This latest edition is not even that expensive.
So pahamnya with his wife’s loyalty with this Birkin bag, David Beckham was always quick with the latest edition. For Christmas in 2008, David also gave her Birkin bag. 80,000 bags worth pounsterling (approximately USD 1.1 billion) was encrusted with diamonds, a Himalayan edition Birkin, who only three numbers in the world.
Come, Enjoy Chocolate
Lifestyle September 21st, 2009
you are fond of eating chocolate and want to enjoy the chocolate heart’s content, please visit the Forbidden City arena in Senayan City, which was held this February 3-21. Here you can taste the chocolate fountain, chocolate pieces, chocolate beans, chocolate biscuits, chocolate chips, colorful, white chocolate, until chocolate meses. Enough to pay Rp 10,000, you can eat as much chocolate.
In the arena located on the 1st floor atrium Senayan City, you can also shop various chocolate products by 10-30 per cent discount. Various brands of chocolate you can get, such as Silverqueen, Tulip Chocolate, Ceres, and others. There is also a limited edition chocolate, Chunky Bar size is 1 kg. Chocolate is called The King of Bars.
While enjoying the chocolate, you can enjoy the spectacle but not least he exclaimed. Right in the middle of the mall framed replica of the eight terracota statues or sculptures known as soldiers. 170 centimeters tall statue, each weighing is made with 150 pounds of chocolate.
Altogether”made from pure chocolate, chocolate sculptures and eight symbolizes good fortune is always around,’’said Susilawati Tjahjo, spokesman for Compass Silverqueen Female.
Chocolate-brown that will be on display until the next few weeks it was made within a month. Eighth terracota statue has the face and hairstyle different.
One of the “attractions” that many visitors attention is the introduction of various cocoa, the manufacturing process, to the types of ready-made chocolate.
Everything”is shown along with pictures and detailed examples, ranging from chocolate selection process, stripping, processing of cocoa beans from cocoa beans, until the final product,”added Susilawati.
From the officers, you will also get information about the goodness of chocolate. For example, that chocolate is not just food stress.
Different Ages, Different nutritional
Family Care September 21st, 2009
As it is known nutrients needed for growth and development of children. In fact, it’s needs must be met since the fetus in the womb and continues until they mature.
According to Oetoro dr.Samuel, clinical nutrition specialist, parents need to pay attention to nutritional needs according to stages of child growth of age. Unfortunately, most parents tend to generalize the food to all ages, especially after the child is three years or after the golden period elapsed.
“The nutritional requirements for children at different ages with the growth of school-age children, pre-teens and teens because of the psychological and hormonal also different,” said dr.Samuel.
After two years of age, the process of developing the child grows gradually divided into the pre-school age until 5-6 years, the school age 7-12 years (in which existing 9-12 year period, and ends with adolescence / puberty 13-18 years.
Therefore food provided should be distinguished, according to the needs of growth of the process. “The food that children are growing is different from the needs of children entering pre-adolescence or adolescence,” said dr.Samuel.
Food not only for filling the body, but also to meet nutritional needs. “Children 4-9 years of age move more, because it was filled with food sources of energy and the formation of muscle and bone,” said the doctor who practiced daily in this Semanggi Clinic Specialists.
Meanwhile, pre teens and teenagers, are also called puberty because at that age already have their reproductive organs perkembangangan function that produces hormones to prepare the reproductive function of maturity.
“The effect of this hormone causes rapid growth, as on the fetus and infant. You could say the pre-puberty and puberty is a crucial period in which nutritional adequacy must be taken very well,” said dr. Samuel.
Diets high in calcium and iron are recommended for children at the age of puberty. “Iron deficiency anemia can lead to serious consequences in the future,” he said. Young women also need intake of vitamin B complex and antioxidants.
