Want to Get Salary Increase?
Career August 15th, 2009
Many companies are urging employees to perform new tasks that had not a responsibility. You may receive this with complaints, but listen first. What if you accept this assignment as a challenge? Work with the best, because if you’re very good performance, you can make this weapon to hold up a raise, beyond regular salary increases.
However, many people who feel uncomfortable to ask for a raise, especially if the boss did not show signs of care on your workload. So you do not look sok tau, or do not know myself, this is what you must do to apply for a raise:
1. Research
Use, make sure that you are worthy of a raise. Salary rate is dependent on the type of company, area you live, and of course your own abilities. Try to check how much the salary of employees in other places with your level, to get an idea of how much should you ask for an increase. Learn all the rules of promotion or salary increase calculations in your company. Who has the power to make decisions about salaries? Does every person in the salary range you get the same increase? Make sure also that your company’s financial condition and doing well. Now, use this information as a justification for your salary increase.
2. Show your work
Do you deserve an increase? Maybe so, but make sure your boss has seen the results of your hard work. You’ve worked above the target, and can hold a greater responsibility to the job. This is not the time for you to humble yourself. Write down all your accomplishments, and show that you are ready to show higher performance.
3. Advertise your achievement
Express your value to the company, how to provide a list of additional activities have you done to accomplish your tasks. In times when many companies often do layoffs, this is generally done. Are you able to handle work usually done two or three people? Perhaps it takes hard work, but if you are able, you are entitled to ask for reward. Make an estimate of the value of these tasks, and suggest an upgrade in your salary.
4. Flexible
You might ask a certain number as a pay raise, but do not make fixed price. Stay offer for negotiations, and consider all the benefits offered by companies, such as insurance, training, or services abroad.
5. Wait time
If the company already has a season salary increases, perhaps this can be a good time to make extra increase that can be incorporated into the compensation that will be discussed. Of course this also depends on the company’s financial situation. Be patient, and wait for the right time to deliver.
8 Types of Difficult Parents
Lifestyle August 11th, 2009
In educating children, the way each parent is different. Depending on the type of the child’s own, the parents’ background such as growing up, and the experience and knowledge of children’s education. Some time ago, Nanny Stella from Nanny 911 programs visit to Indonesia to share tips about how to educate children. He also could reveal the types of parents who either of those ways of raising children according to his experience during 15 years as a nanny. The following include:
Angry / Frustrated
This type is difficult to control his anger, anger short fuse, and often used method of dictator-style punishment (yelling, hitting). Your spouse often feel frustrated, too, and the children often feel intimidated, and afraid to approach for fear that you will be angry if they were wrong to behave.
The fix: Try to begin to exercise patience, one way is to practice breathing, or counting to 10 until the anger subsided. Another way is to use a soft ball that can be crushed, lampiaskan energy each time it felt like anger came. If your anger is very hard to resist, try to leave the room for a moment to compose himself. Or use the energy to clean the house. You should not shout to the children. Better advised to say calmly. If you feel like screaming, you should approach the child and spoke in a whisper.
Dodge
There are some parents who fear or frustration facing his family. This type is generally avoided to go home or away together with his family. However, this will impact on the children who will feel disappointed, asking for more attention, and took the opportunity for your non-existence.
The fix: Look for this issue as a problem job. Face and find solutions. Some couples do not divide tasks equally. Try to think of your relationship and your partner as a team. Before you start taking steps, you and he needs to unify the vision. After that, start dividing your job to make sure everything went smoothly, and also predict what should and dare you compromise with a partner. Make sure it is running smoothly.
Confused
You feel not understand many things. Submit all responsibility and everything to your spouse and let your child do whatever they want. Your partner agrees to keep the atmosphere calm, but regretting why you do not want to try. Your kids take advantage of your kekurangtegasan and often took over the leadership when he could.
The fix: Stop complaining and start thinking about what you want from the children and yourself. Talk with other parents you trust the ideas and input.
Not Organized
You have a routine and no one was completed. Surrender is one of your habits. Your spouse begins to help you with the reasons. Your children do not regularly, often absent from the promise, and avoid the task.
The fix: Create a system of tasks, routines, and make the goods scattered. Build consistency, boundaries, structure, and the level of modeling. Believe in yourself, and unite as a family.
Forgiving
This type of letting the child do whatever he wants, even for bad actions though, and rarely disciplined child. Pairs of this type assume that this type of confusion and unable to discipline the child. Children easily get what they want by crying and complaining.
The fix: Avoiding the mind “but they’re still kids. Tell the children that go bad, “it should not be!”. Create rules for your child, if I could write, and never absent from the rules, do not want to give up the rule. It is the responsibility of you as parents and adults in the house to be assertive.
Loud
Shouts, “Quiet!” often thrown. Children and spouses became afraid and did not dare approach. The children started screaming when talking with friends or relatives.
The fix: The cry is a sign that the situation had started too far. When you feel like screaming, calm yourself. Keep the TV volume to each other and start listening to each other that speaks in a voice quite calm. Take control of your volume.
Very Like Criticizing
One of the common mistakes parents is to create a standard that is impossible for them to fulfill. The parents tend to think of yourself and your family’s image in the eyes of others, and not thinking about the child’s feelings.
How to deal: Ask yourself, what have you done to your baby. Think about how you would feel if your parents act like the way you treat your child. Create realistic rules of the house and listen to your children.
Underestimated
You are always in conflict with the opinion of the couple. Your spouse often feels discouraged and doubting her own feelings. Children often feel confused, and behave much like to seek attention.
The fix: Swallow your pride, look at the reality and face the mistakes you’ve made. Create rules and agreements for the home team. When you’ve approved, and each had to know the duties and responsibilities are evenly split, there was no reason to look at one eye pairs.
Tricks Introduce Solid Foods to Infants
Family Care August 9th, 2009
Changing the eating habits of infants aged 0 – 6 months to 1 year the mother of creativity needed. According to Dr. Fiastuti Witjaksono, SpGK, MS, maternal role begins when the baby started solid foods are introduced with the transition from milk.
“Recognition can be started at six-month-old baby. If a child late will not chew properly, and he will ngemut when eating. The problem is usually less nurturing mothers in introducing foods,” explained Dr. Fiastuti in the press conference “100% Nutrition for Buah Hati “held by MeadJohnson in Jakarta, some time ago. In fact, says Dr. Fiastuti, good chewing ability to stimulate the neck muscles.
To introduce solid foods to your baby can try some of the following tricks:
Provide food with no taste (plain)
Should introduce children early on with a sense of the plain. Reduce sugar, salt, or provide fresh milk (not vanilla especially chocolate). If the child since the baby accustomed to eating foods with a variety of taste, when a toddler child will quickly get bored with the food. Conversely, if the plain sense first introduced, so a toddler son began to enjoy a sweet or salty foods which make it more voracious eating. Too often gives a sweet tooth will cause the child to be too active. Do not be surprised if the child is still happy with his toys though it was bedtime.
Variations menu suitable for children
Usually for convenience, food consumption was made uniform to parents and children alike. For example, you prepare the vegetables nodes and corn cakes for lunch, and give the menu for the little guy. This method makes it difficult for the toddler who is learning his new food. Give your menu variations that are suitable for toddlers, and not an adult food.
Cut small
In presenting the food, adjust to the child. If you make sandwiches, cut into small sizes with a decorative appearance. Create a child glanced food, and ready to eat. That way, her little mouth can not chew slowly, and even make them sajiannya happy meal.
Do not mix the food with water
How often do you mix the rice with soup for baby food? This way it does not help the child to spend their food, especially if the child takes a long time to eat. Mixed rice with soup full speed to make your child for more solid food. Do not be surprised if three times the bribe, the child had no appetite.
Combine carbohydrates, proteins, and fats
Nutrients in the food intake should be gradual. No need to worry too much if the food composition is not yet perfect. Just make sure every child’s diet contains carbohydrates, protein, and fat, with a greater carbohydrate composition (2 / 3 of the amount of food). Sizes to see how simple fulfilled nutrition, weight must be appropriate age. Children weighing less can be said about nutrition, as well as overweight. However, this back to the age of the child. Dr. said there Fiastuti formulation of nutrition count, but every year simply child’s weight should be increased by about 2 kg.
Men from the Wanted Old Women More
Relationship August 9th, 2009
According to a survey that was launched site askmen.com men, lately the trend relationships with older women more uphill. In the past, most people think that women mature faster than men, therefore, to balance, it is advisable for women seeking older men, who can guide. Then, what is the reason he chose today’s older women? Curious? Here are the reasons for choosing the men associated with older women:
More Independent
The older woman, usually no problem spending time alone. They have a lot of experience with men, and accustomed to spend the day alone. Therefore, no problem for older women when the partner is not always at his side every time. The women are judged not so dependent or needs more attention, therefore, easier to relate to them.
More Assertive
In general, older women have found their identity and find out what they want. These women no longer feel afraid of him, plus, they do not want to waste time playing with feeling. Generally, women in the early 20’s will likely “push-pull”, or trying to make their partner jealous, while the older women would rather be honest with their feelings. For men, openness and honesty is very pleasant.
Interesting conversations
Communication is one of the important things in a relationship. The older woman better understand many things and have experienced in life, so that more material for discussion. In addition, they also have interesting stories, so it will be a couple of very pleasant conversation. Interesting conversations will help keep good relations despite sparks of physical passion had begun to decrease.
Got Money
For men, this is not primarily, but quite important. Because, he feels have a reliable partner and do not necessarily have to always depend on him. Not to mention the man does not have to worry about the woman who at times need the money while she was being short.
Adult friendships
The women are young often tangled problems in the relationship of friendship. Not infrequently, to be a couple of young women, men should get some sort of “approval” from the friends of this woman. While the more mature woman, was able to trust their own decisions, do not have to always ask the opinion of his friends. Adult women have more confident and independent. They also have to sort out which friend they can listen.
Having a Better Taste
Older women have a better taste in spending time with his date. They’ve been through periods of style teenage rebellion, and not merely want to be the center of attention as a young girl. Therefore, they would prefer something more quiet and meaningful when deciding the activity or place for a date.
Not Drama Queen
Young women tend to be emotional, because they are a lot of first experiences. Thus, a very experienced hysteria seemed like drama. First love, first girlfriend broke up, betrayed for the first time, and many more. Because of lack of experience, young women often exaggerate the problem. While more mature women can be judged much better deal, they can calmly face the pressures and problems, and even tend to solve their own problems well.
Experience in Dealing
Mature women know how to deal with the problem and the days of misery caused by the relationship because they’ve never experienced it. Adult women are able to measure and be able to deal with issues surrounding the relationship. As a result, for this maturity, the older woman could maintain a better relationship.
Respecting Time
Because adult women understand what the important things in life, they are more able to appreciate the time that passed, without the need for excessive indulgence in emotion. Most of the young woman considers relationships or life in general with a very serious glasses. While the mature woman looking at him from the value of his personality. He already knows what’s going on out there, and he knows how to appreciate the time and not waste what he has granted.
In order for Delicious and Perfect Cookies
Culinaire August 2nd, 2009
Cookies delicious selection starts from precision materials, equipment, dough, so I bake. Let’s see, if the way we have been correct.
Carefully read the recipe
Make sure all the necessary materials there, and as prescribed. Then understand recipes that will be made. Get used to this, because it takes baking accuracy and precision.
Prepare tools
Save all the equipment (bowls, pans, molds, and other equipment) in place, easily accessible and quickly achieved.
Pan right
Recipes usually describe the size pan needed to fit the baking time and temperature. If the pan size larger or more shallow, meaning need higher heat. If the smaller size and more deeply, meaning the heat must be lowered.
Prepare materials
For complete results, select the best raw materials and fresh.
* Baking powder and baking soda
Note the expiration date and discard if it has passed its time. To test it, add the vinegar on baking soda and hot water to baking powder. If it bubbles out, he is still fit for use. This material mix in the flour before adding the wet ingredients. This is to combine more evenly and not leave a hole in the cookies.
* Flour
In the high gluten flour is usually used for making bread and pasta. Bergluten flour was being used for cakes, muffins, quick bread, and cookies. Low-protein flour is usually used for pastries, cookies, brownies, pies, and cookies.
* Nuts
Kiss was the smell of the beans before use. Store nuts in the refrigerator to be more durable and not rancid.
* Butter
Make sure the butter stored at room temperature, so you can easily mix with sugar. When the refrigerator, take out first at room temperature at least until the texture menjdi weak enough, without being greasy or too soft.
* Sugar
This material makes the cake more tender texture. Soft granulated sugar, melt the cake form. Unlike the powdered sugar, let alone that contain corn flour, it actually prevents cookies melt.
Make sure the size of
To get the right size, use a spoon or a standard cup size does not deviate so far. For example, use a clear cup for liquid ingredients is to the right size.
Make sure the cup is placed on the surface completely flat. If the prescription used to use a foreign measure, use Cooking Measurement Equivalent Chart to get an accurate size.
Oven temperature
Preheat the oven at least 10 to 15 minutes before being used to develop the perfect material, as well as the end result. Make sure the temperature in the oven with an oven thermometer before adding the batter.
Cake pan
Cookie sheet to cool while the dough is placed to prevent the cake melted before entering into the oven. Bake the cake pan in one period and make sure there is distance 3 cm from the wall oven so hot in the oven properly circulated. So that the cake does not stick to the pan, apply a thin layer of margarine or unsalted butter to the pan base.
